Ever feel like you’re just plain stuck? Your weight isn’t moving, your job seems like a dead end, your relationships aren’t what you’d like them to be. Well, you want to know how I got unstuck when I found my 100 + lbs transformational weight release not moving as quickly as I’d like?
Simple. Just by realizing you’re never really stuck. What I mean is that in life, things are constantly changing every day. There are new people, new environments, new problems, new policies, new rules and most importantly new opportunities every single day. No two day are ever the same, even though it may feel like it as you bang away doing many of the same tasks every day.
So why do we end up feeling stuck? Because we end up making the same choices day in and day out. You see, there is always more than one way to look at the things. You can play the victim or you can play the dynamic character that solves the problem. By realizing that by making different decisions every day you will change your reality (even if you make it worse, I swear that’s better than being stuck) and this is a much more empowering decision than believing that you are stuck. You are never really stuck, you just keep re-creating the same experiences over and over through your almost identical decisions.
So…take a different way home, talk to someone different, read a new book, check out that different website about that thing you are interested in, pick up a new magazine, walk the other way around the block, go buy a different type of clothing, start changing some of your small habits and see what happens. See if you all of the sudden don’t feel so stuck anymore. Even small changes can change your perspective.
And of course…always remember that you’ve always got your friends to help pull you out of that mud.
Be happy (it’s a choice),